Author Archives: Babette

For All Military Spouses

So, here’s the deal. We are starting a new writing program for MilSpouse.com. As most of you know, we update new content each day. Every day, three new articles appear on the site and each week we send out a newsletter to let you know what those articles and topics will be. [...]

Bigger IS Better

Anyone who has known me for longer than five minutes knows I am from Texas. I’m not a “native Texan,” but I am a transplant who calls Texas home. I also don’t recycle. I know, I know, shame on me, but I have a reason.
Several years ago, before all the heightened awareness about [...]

Leave the Ladder Out

Every now and then I get a comment about a particular letter I wrote in our March issue.  I thought it might be time to visit the letter again…
There are two kinds of people:  givers and takers.
In our community, I’ve seen both extremes.  There are the consummate givers, the spouses who attend each function, [...]

The Marine named Tom

Today was a bad day.  I was coming home from the dentist with my three little boys with clean teeth in the back of the van.  I was on the highway, and I heard the pop.  My tire blew out.  I was about ¼ mile from the front gate and hobbled my van up to [...]

Facing the music

Woo-hoo!  Spring break is here!  My sons, particularly my oldest, are so thrilled.  This morning was the first day of Spring break…how did I know?  Why, because they slept through Reveille, of course. 

My oldest came running into my office, with breath to choke a goat and fresh up from sleep, panicked because he [...]

Wanted: Military Moms

This is a great opportunity for military moms out there. USAA is involved, so you can trust the process. They are looking for military moms to be nominated. I know how many amazing stories are out there and this is one way we can recognize each other’s commitment and dedication. Nominate [...]

A little bit of Chicken Little for dinner…

Life for me is a series of country music songs and animated movies. This last week that DH was gone was particularly horrendous. Everything that could go wrong, did go wrong. Well, you know the story…the proverbial poop hits the fan every time HE’s gone. I’ll spare you the gory details, [...]

For My Valentine

Ok. So, we all know how much I don’t like Over-Commercialized-Sugar-Induced…oh, wait, I mean…Valentine’s Day. Yeessshh….I don’t like romantic movies, I don’t eat chocolate and goofy stuffed animals make me nauseous. But, alas, it IS the day my husband proposed to me–on a rainy pier at Rudee’s Inlet in Virginia Beach many [...]

Super Tuesday

Super Tuesday commonly refers to the Tuesday in early February or March of a presidential election year when the largest number of states hold primary elections to select delegates to the national convention at which each party’s presidential candidates are officially nominated. More delegates can be won on Super Tuesday than on any other single [...]

MSWK vs. MSWOK

I developed my own acronyms for the purposes of this blog. MSWK = military spouse with kids, MSWOK = military spouse without kids, (but who want them some day)
Now, I realize I have three children. And, I also realize that having each of them was my choice. I’ve recently experienced a bit of a role-reversal, [...]